{"id":859,"date":"2012-02-08T19:33:05","date_gmt":"2012-02-09T03:33:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dorothytheorganizer.com\/?p=859"},"modified":"2012-02-08T19:33:05","modified_gmt":"2012-02-09T03:33:05","slug":"birds-do-it-bees-do-it-even-educated-fleas-do-it-hello-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dorothytheorganizer.com\/organizing\/birds-do-it-bees-do-it-even-educated-fleas-do-it-hello-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Birds Do It, Bees Do It, Even Educated Fleas Do It\u2026 \u201cHello Love!\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"
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"Cupid draw back your bow and left your arrows go..." ~ Sam Cooke<\/p><\/div>\n

On Valentine\u2019s Day the whimsy of a chubby cherub boy flitting about with a bow and a quiver full of magical arrows is a very romantic notion, but when it comes down to the nuts and bolts of it, finding a partner is kind of like the super information highway: Information rules!\u00a0 And time, contrary to the song, is not on our side.<\/h4>\n

Consumers rank Match, eHarmony, Chemistry, PerfectMatch and Spark as the Nation\u2019s top 5 Dating Sites.\u00a0 What do they all have in common\u2026 a personality profile questionnaire assessment.\u00a0 So maybe finding, (and keeping) the perfect love, (and shouting it from the highest hill), might involve just a little organization on our part.<\/p>\n

We spend time and energy organizing practically every other aspect of our lives \u2013 why not our love life!\u00a0\"\"<\/p>\n

So this Valentine\u2019s Day whether you\u2019re currently unattached, a twinkle in somebody\u2019s eye, ready to set the date or buying leather accessories \u2013 the traditional 3rd<\/sup> year anniversary gift is leather \u00a0\u2013 spending more time to understand yourself or your partner can only be a good idea. \u00a0And this is probably the only time you\u2019ll hear DorothyTheOrganizer<\/em><\/strong><\/a> tell you less is definitely NOT more!<\/p>\n

Reviewing childhood stories and sharing memories, <\/a>both happy and sad, is an amazing way to really understand yourself, or a significant other more completely.\u00a0 Having conversations about your life and family will help you get closer to each other, be more compassionate and understanding, and find out what makes you both tick.<\/p>\n

TIP:\u00a0<\/strong> Knowing more about the story of your significant other\u2019s life can help you understand where they are coming from when they:<\/h4>\n